Period pain has existed since the beginning of time, but despite the fact that it affects 9 out of 10 women in the UK, the condition is largely dismissed by the medical and scientific community. As women, weâve coped with dysmenorrhea, as a birth right of sorts. To quote Kristin Scott Thomas in Fleabag: âWomen are born with pain built in.â Itâs like a subscription service you never signed up for, and canât unsubscribe from.
Take the pain out of your period
90% of us experience period pain, and when left unmanaged it leads to us losing 150 million productive work days per year.
Well, weâre saying timeâs up. Timeâs up on the lack of scientific innovation and research on menstrual cramps, PMS, premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) and other ovarian, vaginal, or uterine health conditions, because period pain is a universal health condition. Â
This was confirmed in 2016, when John Guillebaud, professor of reproductive health at University College London, revealed that period pain can be as âbad as having a heart attackâ. A. Heart. Attack. He continued to say âMen donât get it and it hasnât been given the centrality it should have. I do believe itâs something that should be taken care of, like anything else in medicine.â A little louder for those at the back please, John. The lack of research on period pain is not only due to centuries worth of deeply ingrained sexism, but also the shame and stigma attached to menstruation. If the conversation is kept in the dark, then thatâs where the problems will stay. So how does this affect the everyday lives of women across the globe, not just physically but also mentally within the attitudes of different societies? Â Â
Sometimes it feels like thereâs a pole up my bum.
âSometimes it feels like thereâs a pole up my bum. I get the sweats and canât move, and I have to take a day off work so I can just lie there and cry.â This is how Wendy Lathwell, a 28-year-old charity worker from London, describes her monthly period pain. When I ask if she is honest with her employer about why she canât make it into the office, she replies âNo, I have to make up some bullshit excuse because itâs too awkward.â Itâs clear that she is not alone. In 2017, a survey conducted by Wear White Again reported that period pains are responsible for 5 million sick days per year in the UK, with 73% of women lying to their bosses about the cause of their absence. The stigma surrounding periods is undeniably decreasing thanks to advancements in the mass media, like Bodyform daring to use red liquid instead of blue in their advertisements for sanitary pads (which seems crazy to applaud, but we have to take the wins as they come) and  the #FreePeriods movement evolving from an online campaign into an IRL protest outside the Houses Of Parliament in December 2017. However, at ground level, for the everyday woman, itâs clear that the shame is still a very heavy burden to bare.

Following Netflixâs Oscar win for Period. End of a Sentence, the BBC Four radio show Womanâs Hour invited 3 women from the British Asian community to discuss their experience with attitudes to periods. Sonar Sashdal Patel describes menstruating as a rather low-key matter in her Hindu household, until she found out she wasnât allowed to attend certain religious events. âThere are certain goddesses where if women have their period, they arenât allowed to go,â she says.  âWe abided by that. We werenât an extreme familyâŚwe didnât do it in our own home but when it happened outside of our home, we respected what other elders in the community thought and we didnât go.â
In September of last year, the Indian Supreme Court ruled to end a ban that kept women of menstruating age from entering the Hindu temple of Sabarimala in Kerala. Prior to that, women and girls aged 10-50 (aforementioned menstruating age) were prohibited from worshiping in the temple as it was thought that they were impure. Despite Hindu scriptures not explicitly outlining the exclusion of women as a necessary religious practice, many traditionalists reacted strongly against the new order. Â
[In the UK] 137,000 children have missed school because of period pain.
A Unesco report estimates that 1 in 10 girls in Sub-Saharan Africa will miss school during their menstrual cycle, this equals as much as 20% of a given school year. The reasons for this are varied, but a lack of access to information, adequate facilities and sanitary products are undeniable. Itâs important to highlight that this situation isnât limited to developing countries. Period poverty is a very real problem in the UK too, where 137,000 children have missed school because of it and 1 in 10 girls canât afford period products. Globally, over 1.2 billion women lack access to basic sanitation and hygiene, and the United Nations has recognised menstrual hygiene as a global public health and human-rights issue.

In 2016, when Olympic swimmer Fu Yuanhi announced she was on her period in a post-race interview, she was celebrated as a feminist hero in the Western press. However, in her native China, the reactions were somewhat different. Weibo, a popular Chinese micro-blogging site, saw users querying how Fu hadnât managed to turn the pool red. Tampons are extremely rare in China, with user statistics from the time of her race being as low as 2%. This is due to a general belief that tampons are not good for female health, and that they will break the hymen and rob girls of their virginity. This taboo runs so deep that in 2015, not a single tampon was manufactured in China, but 85 billion pads were produced in the country.
Women are excluded from communities for simply daring to menstruate.
When you introduce the idea of dysmenorrhoea on top of these existing cultural and logistical problems, itâs disturbing how much periods are setting back the lives of women and girls alike. Itâs difficult to research the effects of period pain exclusively because we have not yet reached the stage of having open conversations about periods in general. When women are excluded from communities for simply daring to menstruate, how can they then be open about how much pain they are in? When girls cannot afford sanitary products and are using anything they can find to absorb the blood, regardless of sterilisation, how can we introduce the idea that there are ways to combat the pain they are also undoubtedly experiencing? And if we would rather call into work and say weâre sick than explain we have crippling menstrual cramps, how can any concrete research on the severity and spread of the problem be collected?
We must be repeatedly open about our periods and our experiences and force the powers that be to listen.
Ultimately, the taboo around every single aspect of menstruation is what is preventing societal change, including medical developments and research into period pain. This is why we must be repeatedly open about our periods and our experiences and force the powers that be to listen. Thanks to the amazing work of Amika George (founder of the #FreePeriods movement mentioned earlier) in March 2019 the UK government announced sanitary products would be free in secondary schools across the country. The phrase ârespect our existence, or expect our resistanceâ never felt more appropriate.





